I have a friend, who we'll call .... Too Cool. While we are going to discuss said friend today, please know that I have also discussed all of this with them already. It's reached a point of light humor between us all now where it's easy to point out 'You're doing it again'. The reason … Continue reading Too Cool
Ok I'm admittedly annoyed as I type this. It's time for a venting session. The person who is forced into my life that I can't get rid of is on my last nerve at the moment. There are a handful of things they have done recently that are quite frankly too unpleasant to describe, but … Continue reading Neanderthal Vent
There is something else recently I've been working on adjusting. In the past, when I get upset about something I spend a great amount of time thinking about it. I take time to consider why I'm upset, what kind of upset I am (disappointed, hurt, sad, mad, etc.), if I have a valid reason to … Continue reading Stop Internalizing!
Recently I discussed having expectations for myself and for others that were pretty unfair. I can't remember if I mentioned that I'd also been doing some further thinking into where these expectations were based from or not. If I didn't...well now I am. This is something I've been doing lots of thinking about in relation … Continue reading Why and When Did This Start?
So this year I didn't make a resolution...I never really do because I feel that it leads to too much pressure and inevitable failure or at least feeling like a failure if I don't uphold what I wanted to do. Gotta love all the mental warring that goes on. So I just avoid it and … Continue reading The Year of NO
All right, I'll admit it...I haven't felt like writing in a while. For a good long period of time I was all about it and managed to bang out months worth of posts in advance. Then it felt like I just sort of ran out of things to say. OR I would spend plenty of … Continue reading Can Control Vs. Can't
This time I wanted to talk a little about something I've always struggled with but am working hard on at the moment. It goes along with accepting myself and also accepting others. Somewhere along the lines I developed some really high standards, for myself as well as others. I'm still working on getting to the … Continue reading Expectations